Proverbs 13:24

24 Whoever spares the rod hates their children, but the one who loves their children is careful to discipline them.

Proverbs 13:24 in Other Translations

KJV
24 He that spareth his rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes.
ESV
24 Whoever spares the rod hates his son, but he who loves him is diligent to discipline him.
NLT
24 Those who spare the rod of discipline hate their children. Those who love their children care enough to discipline them.
MSG
24 A refusal to correct is a refusal to love; love your children by disciplining them.
CSB
24 The one who will not use the rod hates his son, but the one who loves him disciplines him diligently.

Proverbs 13:24 Meaning and Commentary

Proverbs 13:24

He that spareth his rod hateth his son
Who withholds or withdraws his rod of correction, which is in his hand, which he has power to use, and ought to exercise at proper times; he, instead of loving his son, may be said to hate him; for such fond love is no better than hatred; and, if he really hated him, he could scarcely do a more ill thing by him than not to correct him for a fault; which was the sin of good old Eli, and both he and his sons suffered for it; but he that loveth him;
that has a true love for his son, and a hearty concern for his welfare and future good; he will regulate his affections by his judgment, and not give way to a fond passion, to the prejudice of his child: but he chasteneth him betimes,
or "in the morning" F24; in the morning of his infancy, before vicious habits are contracted, or he is accustomed to sinning, and hardened in it; or as soon as a crime is perpetrated, before it is forgot or repeated: or every morning, as Jarchi and Aben Ezra; that is, continually, as often as it is necessary, or as faults are committed.


FOOTNOTES:

F24 (wrxv) "mane castigat eum", Munster; "matutinat ei disciplinam", Michaelis.

Proverbs 13:24 In-Context

22 A good person leaves an inheritance for their children’s children, but a sinner’s wealth is stored up for the righteous.
23 An unplowed field produces food for the poor, but injustice sweeps it away.
24 Whoever spares the rod hates their children, but the one who loves their children is careful to discipline them.
25 The righteous eat to their hearts’ content, but the stomach of the wicked goes hungry.

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Cross References 3

  • 1. S 2 Samuel 7:14
  • 2. S Proverbs 3:12
  • 3. Proverbs 19:18; Proverbs 22:15; Proverbs 23:13-14; Proverbs 29:15,17; Ephesians 6:4; Hebrews 12:7
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